Finally Tried That Hand-Pulled Noodle!

There was a time when my husband and I tried the Spot.ph’s Top 10 Halo-Halo in Manila. We tried 8/10 already. I am slightly following Eat Out Now 2014’s restaurant recommendations. There’s like a hundred of them. I have only tried very few of those so far.

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I have a digital copy of this from Buqo. I grabbed the photo from foodreviewsmanila.com

I wanna taste something different tonight. While most crave for their favorite or comfort food, I crave for something new. Taste discovery is fun. Suddenly, my husband announced he was coming from Pasay to my mom’s house in Quezon City where we stay for the meantime. I just told him I am craving for a bowl of noodles. In my mind was the ramen. Tokyo Tokyo seems to be the cheapest. However I don’t know of a branch nearby. Then I remembered Kanzhu- Hand Pulled Noodles from the Eat Out Now. It’s also a chance to tick a box from that.

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Credits to Picky Eater. Thanks!
Credits to Picky Eater. Thanks!

He picked me up at the ground floor of the condo. Our baby was already sleeping. Good thing about living (at least temporarily) in this area is its close proximity to interesting eats and shops.

Some recommended dishes are the various versions of braised beef noodles, beef tendon dry noodles, lamb-fried noodles and the green tea taho. I’m not in the mood for beef noodles, so I got the Lamb Dumpling Noodles. Lamb! But in a dumpling, what would it taste like? It is said to be a sleeper hit anyway. I ordered for take-out. I paid 185 pesos. A ramen from a Japanese resto costs 210 pesos the minimum. So I think this a good deal for a non-instant noodle. Well, ramen must be of different realm, done more meticulously.

Instead of waiting in the resto or in the car, I decided that we get the soft-serve ice cream from Family Mart. I like their ice cream twirl because they are huge, very affordable and the flavors are unique like Green Tea, Salted Caramel, Raspberry, Pistachio and Blueberry Cheesecake. The last 2 are the newly released Christmas specials. Some newly opened branches offer such at 15 pesos, most are 25 pesos.. initially, but now they’re 30 pesos. My husband likes it if the store staff would be the one to put the ice cream on the cone. They can maximize the space. At this time, I was told that they have a management policy that it had to be the customer to fill in the cone. Nevertheless, as another staff was cleaning the machine, the cashier said he could assist me and so he did make me the tallest twirl I’ve ever seen.

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I think Green Tea and Salted Caramel are their best flavors because it tastes like such truly. I got a Pistachio and Blueberry Cheesecake mix. You can taste the each flavor at the sides of the ice cream, unmixed.  The Pistachio flavor is more of just a hint of it.

I returned to get my take-out. They just put the closed sign on the door. I was happy to be carrying a quite heavy paper bag. Few minutes later, we were home. I should say this is one of the best noodles I’ve ever tasted. There is a reason why the selling point of the resto is that hand-pulled noodle. They are flat (probably half width of the fetuccine) and thicker than the usual. The noodle taste excellent by itself. The broth is one of a kind. It has cilantro in it. The lamb dumpling is also yummy. This is quite a foreign but pleasant taste.

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Besides a satisfying out of the blue food trip, I am just very thrilled to have such worthwhile fun with my husband without breaking the bank. 🙂 Marriage is also having random dates.

What is Love?

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I just saw this excerpt of this highly recommended book. I shall have this book in my hands soon enough.

“To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us out of our self-righteousness, and fortifies us for any difficulty life can throw at us.”

“We must say to ourselves something like this: ‘Well, when Jesus looked down from the cross, he didn’t think “I am giving myself to you because you are so attractive to me.” No, he was in agony, and he looked down at us – denying him, abandoning him, and betraying him – and in the greatest act of love in history, he STAYED.'”

-“The Meaning of Marriage”- Tim Keller

On Having a Helper

To have a helper or not? For Westerners, that’s almost a “not” answer. I’ve been told how costly it would be to have one, like in United States. It’s common for a stay-at-home mom to do everything- from kids to household chores. For the working moms, there is day care but at the end of the day, she and if hubby would help, keep the house clean. I noticed that these types of families do a lot of house work on their rest days.

For me who lives in the Philippines, it is still an available option. Many of my friends have expressed how hard it was to find or keep a helper, though. However, it is feasible.

Before I married, I had an ideal that I wouldn’t work but be a housewife, and dead set not to get a helper. I said I was willing to do everything on my own, although, I’m not the best at housework even in my single years. That could be learned, I thought.

To my surprise, having a baby, being a wife and a homemaker are time and energy consuming tasks. It’s like I ate my own words.

We searched and waited for a helper. We tried to get one from an agency, but we couldn’t get one who matches our qualifications, like she should be 18-25 years old, single and most importantly for me, of kind demeanor. There are just who seem to be born with strong will and self-confident– in a negative way.

Unbelievably, our helper came when I least expected it.

She’s been staying with us 2 weeks. It’s the less mentally and physically stressful 2 weeks I’ve had since time immemorial.

There was a part of me who tried to try to do it all. I’m more of a lone performer than a team player. It’s like I’d choose tennis over basketball. Also, I admit that I don’t want to think or relate to other people besides my family, within my own house.

Now, slowly but surely, I can do activities that I love and are worthwhile (not that house maintenance isn’t worthwhile, but you know, delegating that to someone who is best at it).

Our house help is a blessing and answered prayer. Now I can:

1. enjoy a clean and uncluttered house.

2. cook! Let me explain more about that soon.

3. have more quantity and quality time with Ramon and husband.

4. plan for a side line.

5. plan well for everything.

6. just do  a particular task without worrying I haven’t cleaned or arranged this and that.

I remember my Filipino-American uncle told me: “Get a helper. Don’t be prideful to not get one, while you can.” That was quite a game changer for me.

My biggest lesson through this all: more is accomplished with two or more people.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.

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Discovering Batangas: Taal

Intramuros, Vigan, Macau, Malacca- some places for the history buff. If these kinds of places are your cup of tea, then the Taal Heritage Town would captivate you. It’s a place for inspiration, nostalgia and discovery of the past for an old soul like me.

Its claim to fame is more than being the namesake of the world-renowned smallest volcano. Basilica de San Martin de Tours is the biggest Catholic church in Asia, which is majestically perched atop the rest of the preserved 1800s Spanish-inspired ancestral houses of this small but significant town.  Taal’s welcome arch prides itself for being the land of balisong and barong Tagalog. [Read more]

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To My Only Sister…

If Elsa has Anna (Frozen), I have Shane. I fondly call her Sharky. Today it’s her birthday! Time flies. I vividly remember telling my mom that I want an “ate” (older sister), but, boom, clap!, Shane arrived when I was 7 years old. She must be way better than having an “ate”.

Here are 10 fascinating things about my only sister:

1. She loves tenaciously. I saw it when she sacrificially took care of our dad and her beloved dogs.

2. She is extremely talented. She can actually sing and write. That’s besides her primary talent of interior designing!

3. She is the Ms. Handyman of the house. Broken windows, doors, hard to open knobs of gasul, we call on her.

4. She is my make-up artist. She can contour and make your face look flawless!

5. She was the one, my only companion then, who drove me to the hospital in Sta. Cruz from Fort Bonifacio, when my water bag broke!

6. She’s every inch an artist. She is a multimedia graphic artist, interior design and photographer. You’d see the depth of her persona from her shots.

7. She is a loving daughter. It’s one of her missions to take care of my mom.

8. She has a tender heart for street kids. She wants to be their “ate”.

9. She pursues excellence. Good enough is never good enough for her.

10. She is a true and loyal friend. I found a best friend in her.

Happy birthday Sharky! My prayer is that  you’ll be closer to God and live out all His plans for your life. I love you Sharky!

 

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Say Something

Since iWrite, I’ve been fully convinced that anyone CAN write. As long as you have a valuable perspective and insight, you have content! Every well-meaning writer wants to inspire. For starters, you don’t have to be too conscious about the technicalities and to get close to having a write-up worthy to be put in a newspaper or magazines. If you can share your thoughts to advise a person to lead him to the best option, you could put that in writing.

What is written lasts. Sharing to one person could influence one or more, as he pays it forward. Imagine, what if it is written and shared on social media or any publication format, there’s a chance to impact hundreds, if not, thousands of people. 

I came across statements that encouraged me in this writing endeavor. 

First comes from the Bible, in Matthew 5:14-16. 

You are the light of the worldA town built on a hill cannot be hidden.

Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl.

Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.

In the same way, let your light shine before others,

that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

I  like the last part the most. Let your light shine: hope, good news, inspiring thoughts, positive encouragements, encouraging experiences and more. Let the whole world see your good deeds and glorify God: hear them say God is good and make them see God is real and He acts.

Sharing what’s in you, in this context, through writing, is not about you, but for God, for others and the world.

 

The second comes from Mr. Salman Khan, creator of Khan Academy. It is an online resource for academic lesson videos- those you study in school like history, algebra, economics and more. I originally came across that from a homeschooling mom. Frequently, I watch the videos to find out about my topic of interest. He is a learning/ education advocate obviously. He wrote a blog entitled, The Learning Myth: Why I’ll Never Tell My Son He’s Smart

Here is my favorite excerpt from that blog:

“I decided to praise my son not when he succeeded at things he was already good at, but when he persevered with things that he found difficult. I stressed to him that by struggling, your brain grows.”

Writer’s block happens. I’ve also heard a lot of aspiring writers and accomplished writers who say they’re having a hard time to write. I fall to the latter category. I think the message of this blog could apply to our endeavor to write better. The answer to becoming a successful writer is to persevere. I also think this can apply to any endeavor in life in general. We increase our capacity as we overcome struggle.

Khan goes on to say:

“..our intelligence is not fixed, and the best way that we can grow our intelligence is to embrace tasks where we might struggle and fail.”

Let this be an encouragement that all those difficulty is the way through becoming better or even be your best. 

 

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Honoring A Chivalrous Gentleman (On His Birthday)

Exactly 36 years ago today, the man destined for me was brought to the world. I first met him in the summer of 2009, since then I’ve never missed to wish him well on his birthday. Yet, it was only in 2011 when I celebrated it right beside him with an Estrel’s Caramel Cake with candles.
Unlike me, he doesn’t ask for/ demand/ expect gifts or any special treatment on his birthday, and even on any other day. But I think someone like him deserves a lot of such. That’s just very consistent with his traits: content and humble. I personally think we need to boast about people like that.
He’s the most humble man I’ve ever met. That’s why I couldn’t let a man like that pass up.  Because of that he is secured, without a need to prove himself to the world. His identity is in Christ, not in his achievements and titles. He lives for Him. That’s his greatest satisfaction and fulfillment.
I’ve never seen such a man who prays without ceasing, from praying for the restaurant we would eat at to asking God about life-altering decisions. Miracles are a reality to him. How blessed I am to have a man with childlike faith and stands in reverend awe before God.
He has taught me a lot about life and love. He is no Shakespeare, but when he tells me “I love you” every moment of every day, I know he means it.
He is a responsible leader in our household. He is the ultimate chivalrous gentleman.  He is a wonderful father to our only son.
I am glad to have married someone I really admire. How could he not steal and capture my heart.
As a song says, in a restless world like this is, love is ended before it’s began. And too many moonlight kisses, seems to cool in the warmth of the sun.* I have found the one my soul loves.** He is really one of a kind.
Before God winked*** at us, God impressed to me through his word what my husband was going to be like.
My heart is stirred by a noble theme
as I recite my verses for the king;
my tongue is the pen of a skillful writer.
You are the most excellent of men
and your lips have been anointed with grace,
since God has blessed you forever.
 
Gird your sword on your side, you mighty one;
clothe yourself with splendor and majesty.
In your majesty ride forth victoriously
in the cause of truth, humility and justice;
let your right hand achieve awesome deeds.
Let your sharp arrows pierce the hearts of the king’s enemies;
let the nations fall beneath your feet.
—- Psalm 45:1-5
 He’s gotta be excellent, anointed with grace, a warrior and has a noble cause- to me that’s my Mak Shwen Caringal, my almost literal knight in shining armor. 
Photo by Angelo Y. Zalvidia
Photo by Angelo Y. Zalvidia
Happy birthday my forever love! I’m blessed to be your wife.
* “When I Fall in Love” is the song.
** Song of Solomon 3:4. That’s sweet.
*** My friend Nova told me there’s a book entitled When God Winks At You. That’s a book about love life. 🙂

iWrite Pre-Launch: Hope for my Writer’s Block

iWrite is a blessing from heaven as it is the first writing workshop I attended in 6 years! And I’m glad this is the one I went to!

The logo and the complimentary notebook and pen. Photo credits to Rhen Lu (Facebook account). Thank you!
The logo and the complimentary notebook and pen. Photo credits to Rhen Lu (Facebook account). Thank you!

Earlier today, senior writer Richard Dy of spin.ph led the pre-launch of iWrite- a writing seminar/ workshop which aims to inspire people to write. The “i” stands for inspire. This is a non-technical writing seminar.

He spoke to prod us to write to inspire to initiate change and to promote love (not exactly meant to be romantic, but love like, caring, serving, not being apathetic). iWrite has a meaningful slogan: Inspire to write. Write to inspire. 

Just a little bit of background about the speaker. Kuya Richard, as I call him, has been a big brother to me figure since high school days and was my ministry leader. He is passionate for God, his family, athletes, basketball and sports writing. He is a master in his writing craft in my opinion and I would really vouch for him. He is also one of the kindhearted, mild-mannered, hardworking person I’ve known. He’s almost impeccable.

Believe it or not, I’m actually a writer. I believe this is my God-given portion. I have so many melodramatic instances with that aspect of my life. I’ve seen my better days in writing (but now, maybe not yet) from 2004-2006. For so many years, I seldom wrote and published.

Kuya Richard didn’t only inspire me to write back then. He connected to me to 2 editor-in-chiefs who gave me amazing opportunities to write and get published.

Blogs became the new writing outlet at a time of overwhelming responsibilities in the family. I’ve had a hard time writing ever since. I couldn’t find the words to say. I’ve been experiencing a chronic writer’s block. It had been a struggle to get back to writing.

Now as it turned out, quite serendipitous, I’m returning to the key person of my writing “career”, as I try to write again.

In the seminar, he had asked who among you has a blog. It seemed like only a fourth of the room raised their hands. To my impression, it was not a strictly writers-only event, yet most are aspiring ones.

Kuya Richard shared his experiences of wholly edited articles when he began and how he didn’t like reading books before. He went on to tell how his speaking skills were honed working as a pastor for the church. He had spiritually- mentored several men, most of whom are athletes, who are now making a positive influence in their own fields. He showed us how social media is a powerful tool to inspire many lives. 

Great quote there with the man of the hour, Richard Dy. Photo credits to Faith Tuguinay Dumaligan. Thanks!
Great quote there with the man of the hour, Richard Dy. Photo credits to Faith Tuguinay Dumaligan. Thanks!

True enough, words are powerful. Written words last through time.

The workshop part had this provocative question: What are the truthful and inspiring things that you’d like to SHOUT-OUT to the world today that would bring hope, create change and promote love? 

That was the question which made me realize I can still write. I could write longer only if not for the time allotted. Volunteers were called out to share their answers. There were a number of willing sharers. Evidently, all have great life lessons/ principles which they contributed.

Kuya Richard responded to them: So, the news that you couldn’t write isn’t true. You have something to write and you can write! Your relevant thoughts and ideas flow. The problem only happens when you compare yourself to others. (paraphrased).

So far, mission accomplished: everyone, even those who claim they don’t write and one who said, that he just happened to be there, now are inspired and believe they could start writing! That goes to the somebody who used-to-write like me.

Also, it’s worth giving credits to Ava Dy, very supportive wife of Kuya Richard, who invited me to this event. She co-labored with him for this with so much love and sacrificial commitment to this endeavor. Awesome job to all you!

 

 

 

Our Glenda Story

Typhoons and storms come and go in the Philippines. Every other month, stories that come out about the victims could be desensitizing. It’s like becoming a new normal. We hope that every time this frequenting natural disaster happens, we as a nation would have done better the next time. Those who are spared from the calamities must have learned the lessons.

There are just things I don’t fuss about, like events that have never happened to me, so I thought, it could never happen to me. That was until the crippling effect of the recently passed typhoon Glenda affected us. This was my first time to be responsible to clean up and fix what it destroyed. This is a story about God’s grace and a reminder to be wise enough to prepare for disaster.

It was announced that a fairly strong typhoon would come into Philippine’s area of responsibility. Everyone was advised to gear up for this potentially destructive calamity. My husband, Mak, texted me to prepare accordingly. He works in Manila on weekdays, while me and my son Ramon stay in Lipa City. I kinda hadn’t taken seriously the time table of its arrival. I was informed that it would come on a Tuesday. It started to rain quite hard in the afternoon, but then stopped. I went to our canteen, which was a few blocks away. I quipped, “so that was the typhoon already?” Then, a man filled me in, “It’s predicted to come tomorrow. We were already told to come home to our families.”

I was foolish enough to think that I wouldn’t be affected by it just like the many previous storms.  I experienced waist-deep floods in our ground floor in one of our former homes, riding on an improvised boat to get home and braving the floods within the vicinity of UST just to get home. In my latter single years,  I lived in a condominium with my parents and siblings, and then Davao, which is rared by typhoons. In the condo, you would hear the pour of rain and some howling of the wind, but nothing  much happens to your house structurally. The only inconvenience it would give is a brown out, which is not that felt in such a living set-up because condominiums are usually equipped with generators.

Nevertheless my husband came home on Tuesday night. Initially, he came home just because he had the opportunity, although they had been given a heads-up to return to their families because of a coming typhoon. The latter was like a secondary factor. Talk about right timing!

When he arrived, it began raining hard that it was so cool and we didn’t need an electric fan to be comfortable. I love a rainy, windy weather. Deep into the night, it wasn’t sounding good. The gushing winds howl eerily.  It was getting stronger! It was really bothersome that I couldn’t sleep.

At 1am the power shutdown. I guess it was done to prevent short circuits or any other electrical damage. I was still up at 2am, when my husband woke up from sleep briefly to shut all our windows. He saw that some water that entered the window in Ramon’s room puddled up. It’s not a bother. I still couldn’t sleep pass 2am because the sound of the wind was really scary. I could hear objects banging onto the ground. What could it be? I slept at a certain time when I was already mentally tired, which is usually the condition I had to be when I fall asleep.

We woke up at around 10am. My husband got up few minutes ahead of me. He reported to me that the typhoon detached the board of wood covering the slot for the air-con in the master’s bedroom, hence, a significant amount of rainwater came in. Also, water was seeping thru the ceiling. Consequently, the ground floor is wet.

When I saw it myself, our bed with its linens and pillows are soaking wet. Puddles of water are on the floor in the master’s bedroom and half of our ground floor. Baby’s playmat is placed on the living room, instead of a coffee table. It naturally absorbed the water dripping above. As for that dripping water, even after we mopped the affected 2nd floor spots, through that ceiling which I assume is of plywood, several droplets permeate weirdly. We wonder where the water is coming from.

Our neighbor checked on us. It was the only time when I came out and saw what was worse. Cut-off tree branches are scattered everywhere. There were some deformed roofs on the ground. The driving range which is part of our view at the garage was flooded. A neighbor at the end of the rowhouse in front of us had his garage roofs completely torn off.

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There was no electricity and water. Glad we had switched to gas cooking. It was quite a challenge to cook when I don’t usually. My husband was cleaning while I had to strap baby in his high chair so as I could make something for us to eat.

We took a nap, then after that continued cleaning and prepared to evacuate ourselves to Manila. Truly, there was a part of me that felt like we were escaping and leaving the rest of our neighbors in the dark. On the other hand, my husband had to be in Manila for work and if it was just me and baby, then it would be us needing help, which wouldn’t be helpful at this time.

It was good we left at night because earlier, we couldn’t easily get out of our area because long logs blocked our road entirely. It is really noticeable that a lot of trees were broken and branches have fallen.

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Despite of the hassle, I still have a lot of things to thank God for. First of all, I wasn’t alone with baby when it all happened. My husband came at the very right time. I couldn’t imagine how helpless and rattled I might have been. Thank God because it was just a broken plywood, dripping ceiling, wet floors, detached back wiper of the car, a hole in the tail light and a small dent from a flying roof that momentarily bumped into it, a city wide black out and no tap water supply. Thank God because we have my mother who is willing to take us in temporarily in Manila everytime we need a place. There’s so much grace as we went through these.

This experience taught us lessons that we procrastinated on previously:

  1. This is also reminds me how important preparedness for disasters is. It is necessary to have a disaster kit. Let me post a photo illustration of what a disaster kit should contain, which I got from social media.                        10572799_705398399496824_235270625_n
  2. About the food, no-cook ones are better. It is best to prepare paper plates and plastic spoons. Water was scarce so it would be hard to trouble yourself to wash dishes and worst, the cooking pots!
  3. I better have big drums of water. There are moments of water supply interruption in our place, previously. I really should have made this a priority.
  4. Power bank is a good investment.
  5. Have flashlights. Keep candles as well for back-up.
  6. Close all windows during a storm. Hide and secure what can be flown or ripped by strong winds.
  7. Pray. It strengthens us.

 

 

The Truth that Set Me Free

When I was growing up, I would hear my father say that for him the greatest achievement as a father is that we, his children, would accept Jesus as our Lord and Savior, and serve him.

The first in my family to decide to be a Christian was my dad, hence, it was him who led the whole family to Christ. There were a couple of people who shared to him the Good News before he actually made the decision. He had many philosophical questions. Even after his conversion, he sought to understand the details of the Gospel and how to share it.

I’m not so sure if it was me or my mom whom he witnessed to, but I was the first who came with him to the church. It had been my father’s life’s work to preach and share the Gospel.

I was kind of raised as religious and was studying in a sectarian school. I was devoted in ritualistic prayers, confessed to the priests regularly, attended church and so on. As young as I was, I had the notion that I had to do these to atone for my sins, so that I’d rack up points to deserve heaven. I was the kind who was easily condemned, had low self-esteem and wanted to please people.

I was told that you couldn’t be sure about your destination. You could try really hard to earn to get to heaven by being good and being religious enough. That implies we had an unreachable goal, since we are prone to sin and would never be perfect. I was in a cycle of despair.

Now, this is the truth that set me free, as initially shared to me:

* Our sins demand payment. We would never be able enough to pay for it. Jesus died on the cross to pay the price for our sins. We can be forgiven and made right with the just God.

* When we believe in Jesus and what he did for us on the cross, we would be saved from damnation to hell, and would have eternal life.

For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.- Romans 6:23

I wanted to make sure of my place when this life ends. Of course, I wanted to go to heaven. Finally, someone was saying there was a way to heaven!

My father led me to accept Jesus in my heart. Besides seeing this as a good deal, my father’s lifestyle transformation was a testimony that there’s power in this and this works.

I felt as if my father gave me everything already since he “gave” me Jesus. In Him, my life has a purpose and direction. Furthermore, he showed his goodness and faithfulness through me through the years.

It’s my prayer that God will always use me to share this powerful truth that is really life changing!

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